
Conversations that move people back into themselves

Speaking & Consultation
Looking for a speaker who doesn’t just inspire your audience — but actually shifts something?
I’m Dayhana A. Ray, a licensed therapist, empowerment coach, and self proclaimed light bringer. My work centers radical self love not as a feel good concept, but as a practice of liberation. One that helps people unlearn survival mode, reclaim their agency, and remember who they were before perfectionism, patriarchy, and generational expectations took over.
My talks invite audiences to slow down, listen inward, and get honest about the patterns shaping their lives. Through a culturally grounded and trauma informed lens, I explore how ancestral stories, social conditioning, and gender roles impact our relationship with ourselves — and how self love becomes an act of resistance.
This isn’t motivational fluff.
It’s real, embodied, and deeply human.


Popular speaking topics include:
• Radical self love as resistance and liberation
• Reparenting the self and inner child healing
• Breaking free from perfectionism and people pleasing
• Healing ancestral patterns through awareness and choice
• Latin culture, machismo, marianismo, and their impact on women’s self worth
• Rest, intuition, and reclaiming joy in a hustle obsessed world
Each talk is thoughtfully crafted to meet the moment, the audience, and the context.
Formats & Availability
I’m available for:
• Keynotes
• Panels
• Workshops
• Retreats
• Podcast interviews
• Consultation and curriculum support
Whether you’re hosting a community gathering, corporate event, wellness retreat, or educational space, my goal is always the same — to create an experience that feels honest, expansive, and grounded.
Let’s Talk
If you’re looking to create an experience that moves people from insight into embodied change, I’d love to connect.
Contact me to explore how I can support your next event.
