

Choosing Yourself Is Not Selfish (Even When It Feels Like It)
I grew up with a single mothers and saw her selflessness as an act to be admired. What I didn’t see at the time was how that dimmed her light. I grew up believing that being good meant being accommodating, saying yes even when I wanted to say no. That being loved meant being useful. That my worth was tied to how much I did. As the eldest daughter, I learned early on that my needs came second, often time last. And for a long time, I wore that like a badge of honor. But there
Dayhana Ray
Jan 30


Why a Malas Hijas Club?
Why Malas Hijas Club exists: a healing community for daughters unlearning good daughter conditioning, choosing themselves, and reclaiming identity without guilt.
Dayhana Ray
Jan 30














